roken-hearted over demolished dreams ... about career, about family, about love. Bright, gleaming beginnings and middles suddenly change ... and the endings we expected and planned for are changed forever. This is the point where a lot of us get stuck.Rather than address the broken mess, we push harder to progress.
Here is what I have learned through coaching people in all kinds of transition: we try to fix the situation by more and more DO-ing of ineffective actions! The doorway to change and new dreams is in asking completely different questions of our perceptions. If what you are doing does not work, do ANYTHING else! This is one of the key presuppositions of NLP Neuro-linguistic Programming.
You have been diligently posting on job boards: Monster, Career Builder, etc.
You have been telling everyone you know what kind of work you are looking for.
You have been hoping and praying to meet the right person to fill your life with joy, while being stuck in ruminating over the past.
And it's not working? The brokenness is not attracting a brighter future, right?
Now is the time to 'clean up the broken mess' and take charge in new ways. There are strategies and solutions. Let's chat and see how to get a handle on your situation.
Love and light,
Diane
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